Lola Goldie Rowlan Cotten (1900-1996)

Here is an portion of Lola's eulogy, delivered at Montecito Memorial Park, Colton, CA in January of 1996:
"Sons, daughters, grandchildren, and friends.  We are gathered here today for the promotion of Lola  Cotten, for she has made it home to final resting place with her Lord and Savior.

Lola was born Lola Goldie Rowlan on April 1900.  She married Joseph Cotten in 1921.  He preceded her in death some 28 years ago.  They had 4 boys and 1 daughter.

Lola had been a hard worker all her life.  At the age of 17 she saved her family's farm as both her Mother and Father were ill and she took it upon herself to work 10 hours a day at 15 cents an hour to pay off a $300.00 debt and save the farm.  She said she sometimes was so tired she prayed and cried from the long hours of hard work but never gave up.  Since she was the oldest at home she felt an obligation to keep things together.

She always had time for her children and grandchildren.  Her daughter remembers her Mother holding a grandson on her lap, when a granddaughter asked if she could sit on her lap and she told her "I have room on my lap for all my grandchildren." , that's the kind of grandmother she was.

This lady could cook a great meal out of practically nothing and make it taste like a feast.  She could climb upon the house and help put a roof on it.  I'm sure there wasn't she couldn't do if she put her mind to it.

At age 80, she wrote a book and the end passage reads, "Thank you all my Children and grandchildren for making my life so happy, and when all your lives are over may we all meet in that beautiful place called heaven."

The River House Story

Before the river house was built, the sons of Joe and Lola Cotten would take their families to a public campground near Parker, AZ on the Colorado River.  One particular night it was so hot that Al Cotten decided to sleep near the bank of the river on an air mattress with a damp sheet.  Early the next morning  a neighboring camper decided to take in some target shooting.  Al was awakened by gunfire along with empty shells raining down from the bluff above.  Instinctively, he charged up the hill without a stitch of clothing,  screaming like a wild animal.  The entire campground was awaken to a sight and sound they would not soon forget.

After this experience it was clear to Al that this campground was not a safe place for him and his young family.  He convinced his brothers to join him in building a vacation home near Bullhead City, Az.

The original plans were drawn of the back side of a Monopoly game box lid.

The river house was built in only 24 days (12 weekends)

All the material used in construction was transported each week from 200 miles away.

The lot was discounted in price because it was "pie shaped" and had limited frontage on the river.  The brothers turned this negative into a positive.  Because of his connections with the Army Corps of Engineers (he was a former employee), AJ Cotten was able to secure the variance necessary to permit the cabana.

River House Under Construction 

The River House

Fifty years ago, the sons of Joe and Lola Cotten all pitched in and built a vacation home on the Arizona side of the Colorado River.  A whole generation of grandkids spent their summers here, skiing, fishing, swimming, and sun bathing on the cabana and French's beach.   Each of the four brothers had a private bedroom, and all the kids slept on sleeping bags and mattress pads laid out all over the main room.  We played cards, board games, read books and told stories.  There was no television, no radio, and of course no internet.  We actually had to talk to each other.

The "river house" was the vehicle that kept our family together in those days.

Building the Cabana

Relaxing at the River House - Al getting a foot massage from his Mom and Brother Jim

Cotten-Rowlan Genealogy

The search for our ancestors begins with Joe and Lola Cotten.  Our family history predates the Pilgrims and chronicles the history of our nation. The research is ongoing and incomplete.  There are mysteries we will have to leave for future generations to solve. 

Why care about all these dead people?  For us it provides a meaningful experience that is both personal and spiritual.  When we discover great and heroic persons among our ancestors, the sense of kinship can provide a source of strength and encouragement and serve as an anchor point and source of commitment. 

As we relate the stories and histories of our family, we will omit the names of living persons to protect their privacy, and only relate stories that are at least 50 years old to minimize our bias.